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You can't light the way if your own flame is flickering 🕯️
Published 2 months ago • 3 min read
Transform your mission into a movement
What lights your path?
Hi Reader,
This email almost didn't get written.
The weight of the world feels especially heavy lately. There's so much noise, so much uncertainty, and it's easy to wonder: Am I doing enough? Is anyone listening? Am I even making a difference?
Saturday morning, I found myself tipping toward despair and questioning whether I had anything to say at all. Thankfully, encouragement came at just the right moment.
A dear friend called and reminded me why this work matters. She told me how much she looks forward to this newsletter—and it was the nudge I needed. So here I am, showing up for you and for this conversation that’s been quietly stirring in my heart: What does it look like to become the healthiest, happiest, most whole version of yourself?
As someone whose strength has always been "goal-oriented persistence," I've found myself in an unexpected season. Have you ever felt like the path forward isn't as clear as it once was? Like your goals are fuzzy, but your heart is calling you toward something bigger?
If you've been feeling that too—you're not alone.
The truth is, we're living through a moment that's testing all of us. It's testing our ability to stay grounded, to stay kind, to believe that what we're building can make an impact.
While we can't fix everything, we can choose how we show up.
If you are not quite sure what to pursue or how best to go about it, here’s a gentle suggestion. Simply focus on who you're becoming along the way. Not in a superficial sense, but rather in pursuing the version of yourself that feels whole, strong, and ready for whatever comes next. The version that still believes in possibility. The version that knows joy is not just possible, but necessary.
So maybe it’s not about chasing the next big goal right now. Maybe it’s not about following your passion or finding “the thing” that will fix it all. Maybe this is a pause—a chance to become the brightest version of you.
Tending to our inner light is far from selfish. It actually has to take priority. It makes you strong enough to hold up that lantern for others. For me, that means daily walks under the Carolina blue sky. Stopping to appreciate the glossy green magnolia leaves. Finding delight in my son's newfound obsession with Bob Dylan. A recent mission to find a kitchen torch for homemade crème brûlée.
Your moments might look different, but they matter just as much.
When we're feeling untethered, connection becomes our anchor:
✨ Connection with ourselves: What makes you feel alive? What helps you feel rooted?
✨ Connection with others: Who lights your way? Who reminds you what's possible?
✨ Connection with the world: What's still good? What beauty can you pause to notice?
These aren't distractions from the work. They're what make the work possible.
When the time is right, the path will reveal itself. It always does. And when it does, you'll be ready—not just for the work ahead, but for the person you've grown into along the way.
For now, let yourself pause. Let yourself breathe. Let yourself become.
What's helping you stay grounded in this season? Hit reply and let me know. I read every message, and your stories matter to me.
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